Read between the lines

You need no search at the self-help shelves to understand life and your own self, even a simple folktale can be an ultimate eye-opener if you're just willing to read between the lines .

Learn and never ever stop

Don't count the profit by the amount of money you receive or kill to receive a certificate by the end of every undertaking. Learn sincerely, generously, you will never know when you might need what

It's simple

In a materialistic world in which everyone strives and chases after money, I'd like to work for satisfaction.

Old habits die hard

The habits that we pick up at some point of time once fossilized within us won't leave us. Just like a tattoo, we take them everywhere we go, for as long as we live.

Love Thyself

Just like a good book with a well-illustrated cover, the person you are should overpower youself more than your gorgeous hair and hour-glass curves (which is the ultimate stereotype surely), and that is the real deal!

Thursday, November 26, 2009

!! It'ZZzzz a TreNd Bab3 !!

trend?? not clothes! not close to accessories, na-a-ah not shoes!! i'm talking not in the perspective of a shopaholic but in the view of a "practicalaholic" hmm do not search for this word in the dictionary cuz there is none like this ! i invented it basically.. ok back to business.. talking about trend! what trend am i hitting on now?? hmm no one can possibly run away from this so-called magical 4 letter words! L-O-V-E

being labeled as an anti-relationship person will never stop me from bringing up my views and thoughts about it in my practical yet practicable blog! hmm try to look around you..take a turn, turn the key to your brain in anti-clockwise direction, something might pop out..it might be your previous relationship! which you may even regard as relation SHIT! i don't know.. some can save your time as you are already in this blunder! oh dear....for the rest, hmm i know you at least having a crush on someone and looking forward to turn into an author..i mean AUTHOR OF YOUR OWN DOWNFALL! well best wishes in that pals.

i seriously have no ideas on who is the actual trend setter for this! but i know there are millions of followers for this! proud to mention, i'm too one of them ONCE! tough times you see..whether you have a career or not is not a question? education? NOPE ..all everyone want is a relationship! love that strikes you at the age of 15-20 most importantly, can you even regard it as LOVE?? oh dear joke of the year! first you say love, second you say deeply in love, third one you say true love and finally you end up having 10+++ bfs/gfs! what the heck! ok fine i know that 10++ sounds a bit like exaggeration ...ignore ignore.. i just got the point!

desperately in need of relationship..that's how i can describe some teens. risking all they have, family reputation, career, education, future ,friends.. in simple words risking their whole life for 1 basically good-for-nothing girl/ guy! i don't know! love is heaven when it strikes at the right time its hell when it strikes at the wrong time..wrong time?? NOW my dear friends!

when a girl or guy wants you , they will do say all sort of crap in this world to win you.. here we will even discover new definitions and terms which will even drive you insane!! i mean insanely in love! well whose fault is this? loving someone who have their own hidden intentions on you..believing all the scrap he/she talks ! If they don't need us they will wash their hands off ,so why cry ?This is what they mean by infatuation: we imagine something which doesn't exist actually does exist !We then get hurt and begin to sob ! Sob for what and for who ? All for one selfish nut somewhere ?!Love and marriage is not at all a bed of roses to sleep on.. its full of hidden thorns which do make you bleed not only at start off but at times life long! WHAT A TREND YOU PEOPLE ARE IN AND WANTS TO BE IN!

Life is a bore but its in our hands to make it fun!! please don't give the lame excuses of "boredom" to get into a big swamp called relationship! REMEMBER! no one will ever be able to take your parents place in showering you will love and comfort! the child who sets family as his/her first priority will never go wrong in life!!! think about it...

no matter what or who it is, at the end of the day , you will only have your own hands to hold! a third person rarely makes a difference!!

_CHEERS_

>!!RG!!<

Sunday, November 22, 2009

KeEp TyInG!!

wondering what is the title all about??!! well i'm talking about marriage, wedding, tying the knot, end of single-hood or what-so-ever way you call the "auspicious"ceremony as...hmm the holidays just started and it no more seems like holiday season but also wedding season!!! what is so great about getting married? calling the whole "village" to the ceremony! well, i don't know..it is more of a family function but nowadays it is more to a showing off ceremony! dressing up in your best attires, wearing all the gold jewels you have and not forgetting the extra layer on the faces called "make-up"!! GAUDY!!!! 1 word that tells it all!!

come on..why is there too much of excitement? a simple yet merry ceremony is just enough yo fulfill the requirements of the tradition. the crucial one is the legal wedding! registering your marriage! some are too busy being fussy about the village gathering until they forget about the legal part of it! at the end of the day you poked you own eyes! what the fuss then!

oh well, i'm still 18..there is a long way to go!!! not really planning about all these things!! all i know is , this moment i'm still single and being such an adorable daughter to my daddy!!! hehe ...

hmm gotta go and take my shower now...have another wedding (village gathering) to attend!!! haha no offence...my blog is all about my point of view and my practical yet practicable ideas!!! cioawwwzz

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Hom3 iZz Wh3rE mY H3@rT iZzz...

tonight is the final night i'll be sleeping in siti mariam 3-6 for this semester! after all the headaches and stress for 4 months plus, finally here i am , at the end of semester 1!!! time flies uh?? i wont forget the bitter sweet that i went through along my 4 months journey of growing up! a lot i saw and that much i learnt! what else can i say.. i am just glad that things are back in their proper positions..i learnt where to put what! i glanced back at the old book of mine ,its dusty pages, all i did was smile..
life is just an unpredictable journey! no forecast for the weather of life as said by RG! life is neither paradise nor hell! life is basically journey and we all are the travelers. well said by robert frost in his poem the road not taken. the journey of life brings us either to paradise or hell!! here comes the old saying life is barely a choice! at the end of the journey, who chose what is all that matters..but don't worry as the moment of truth arrive, we all are under the ground. let me clear this up: we don't know the outcome until we finish a task! something like that...at the end of our journey in this spinning planet we will know the result! life had been a paradise or hell for us!! our choices makes our lives!

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

gOT My OWN lIFE TO cARrY oN!!


i had never given a thought how my life would change as the way it is now. not grieving nor regretting.. life is cool..being trapped by my own feeling in the chamber called "heart" for 4 months finally brought me to my senses. certain things in life are just not worth-it when it hits you at the wrong time. i made wrong choices. but happy to reveal that the same wrong path later took me to the right road i'm in at this moment.. if to regard it as "regrets" hmm maybe not..experiences and lessons learnt in life are not worth to be regarded as such.. i don't regret any of'em, all i'm trying to reason is how am i driven into taking decisions while knowing how bad am i at it.. funny huh?

hmm i have my own life to carry-on..the past is just a memory of lessons..still keeping all my dad's e-mails to me.full of awesome advices...here are some;

Relax my dear, be happy be cheerful no river is too big to cross no mountain is too high to climb its all in the mind.

Something to ponder ,...people wl throw stones at a full fruited tree thats no big deal let it be !Take the pain like the tree.The tree is not angry it still keeps fruiting. One day they those who threw the stones wld realise how foolish and silly they were!The tree has nothing to lose or regret.

Life is a bore but its in our hands to make it fun,the joy of helping others the feeling that you had helped someone today when you are about to sleep every night is really great !Enjoy it darling, people may let us down dont despair God is watching !

hmmm i love my daddy more than anything in this world!!! NO ONE CAN EVER TAKE HIS PLACE AND THATS FORSURE!!!!!!

Monday, November 2, 2009

Oh dear...





hmmm seriously i've got no idea why i put such a title here..anyway i will try to write.. today we've finnaly accomplished a part of our social studies project!!! finally!!! everyone is soo over the exhibition!!! OMG i can express how glad am i to say that it is FREAKING OVER!!!!! just imagine how tired everyone are the previous night busy preparing for the day!!!!! some didn't even sleep the whole night thinking about whats gonna happen? what the judges gonna ask? how they are gonna arrange the stuffs? etc i am seriously not one of them!!!hehe i was just concerned about the stupid costume that my group had chosen to wear!! Damn DAmn...hehe everyone knows that i was not satisfied at all about the selection!! but somehow i managed to pull through the day with the "prettiest costume"..you know what i mean? hehe anyway its OVER...all ended up well...even had a chance to try out kolam in santha's booth on culture!!! seriously loved their booth!!! nicely decorated! not forgetting serene and her wonderful blue dress ;-).. she looked soo fabulous and managed to become the apple of everyone's eyes!! ok thats all i guess...damn sleeepy

gotta hit the bed...byeeee