dis is drivin me crazy !!

OMG i jas dunno wat to do now..my dad giv me 2 options FOUNDATION or STPM!!!!..i reli dunno which 1 to choose..hmmmm honestly i'm nt gud at makin decisions..i asked my dad 2 make 4 me as i'm a "daddy's gurl", bt unfortunately he said , "i dun wanna influence you, i can oni guide, u make da decision!!!! durghhhh... wat am i gonna do now..things seems 2 b soo complicated !!!1 cuz its between stpm n foundation..both has its own pros n cons..reli hard!!!!..1 day i feel lyk doin stpm is gud bt da next day i think its better 2 jas do foundation n pursue wif my degree..OMG its jas drivin me crazy..soo cluless ...bt da biggest advantage i hav if i take stpm is that i can stay wif my dad....haha.. i mean i can get wteva i wish, i can spend as i want, i am allowed 2 use da internet even 4 da whole day..c!!!! soo many advantages..bt at da same tym i gotta go 2 a new skul n gt back 2 skul lyf in an extremely diff environment cuz its nt gonna b STABK..dis is wat i am scared da most!!!!...accordin 2 my dad skul lyf is reli fun ..he said dun miss da next 2 yrs of da interestin period....i feel lyk my dad is encouragin me to take it..bt he jas dun wanna leave me wif no option....ehmmmmm reli dunno wat 2 do...i hope i can find da right answer veri soon.............haihzzzzzzzzz..DA MOST IMP THING IS EVEN IF I DO STPM, NO "LITERATURE IN ENGLISH "!!!!!!! A BIG "NO" "NO" VICTY!!!!! i had enough dy...........

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The 90/10 Rule (by Stephen Covey- author of the best-selling book, The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People)..

The 90/10 Rule (by Stephen Covey- author of the best-selling book, The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People)

What is this principle all about? 10% of life is made up of what happens to you. 90% of life is decided by how you react.

What does this mean? Basically, we really have no control over 10% of what happens to us. We cannot stop the car from breaking down. The plane will arrive late, which throws our whole schedule off. A driver may cut us off in traffic.

We have no control over this 10%. The other 90% is different. You determine the other 90%. But how?

By your reactions.

You cannot control a red light. But you can control your reaction. Don't let people fool you. YOU can control how you react.

Let's use an example: You are eating breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt. You have no control over what just happened.

What happens next will be determined by how you react.

You curse. And you harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup over. She breaks down in tears. After scolding her, you turn to your spouse and criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table. A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs and change your shirt. Back downstairs, you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish her breakfast and get ready for school. She misses the bus.

Your spouse must leave immediately for work. You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school. Because you are late, you drive 40 miles an hour in a 30 mph speed limit lane.

After a 15-minute delay and throwing a $60 traffic fine away, you arrive at school. Your daughter runs into the building without saying goodbye. After arriving at the office 20 minutes late, you find you forgot your briefcase. Your day has started terrible. As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to coming home.

When you arrive home, you find a small wedge in your relationship with your spouse and daughter.

Why? Because of how you reacted in the morning!

Now why did you have a bad day?

A) Did the coffee cause it?

B) Did your daughter cause it?

C) Did the policeman cause it?

D) Did you cause it?

The answer is "D". But how many people would actually admit to their mistakes...

You had no control over what happened with the coffee. How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused you to go through a bad day.

Here is what could and should have happened: Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to cry. You gently say, "It's OK. You just need to be more careful next time." Grabbing a towel, you rush upstairs. After grabbing a new shirt and your briefcase, you come back down in time to look through the window and see your child boarding the bus. She turns and waves. You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff. Your boss comments on what a good the day you are having.

Notice the difference?

Two different scenarios. Both started the same. Both ended different.

Why?

Because of how you REACTED.

You really do not have any control over 10% of what happens. The other 90% was determined by your reactions.

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What does one do after SPM anyway

When the invigilator announced the end of my final paper, I heaved a sigh of relief and put down my pen. A few blissful weeks passed after I had completed my Sijil Pelajaran Malaysia examinations – weeks where I spent half the time hanging out with my friends and the other half basically lazing around.

As time passed, I gradually turned my thoughts to the burning question every post-SPM student eventually asks: “What will I do after this?”

I didn’t know what I want to do, but I knew what I didn’t want to do, so naturally I eliminated anything that involved Mathematics in excessive amounts, because I hate Math. Nevertheless, I briefly toyed with the idea of doing Engineering before dismissing it due to the fact I’m one of the rare, weird people that likes Physics and detests Maths.

Talking to the lecturers/ counsellors that were sometimes present at the different booths really helped too. Each of them provided useful insight into the course available:

Required skills
The course syllabus – how does it prepare you for your future career?
Available career options upon completion of course.
What does each career entail – how would your daily life be like?
One will undoubtedly gain a deeper understanding of a particular career in addition to the above points. Ask questions, don’t be afraid! Consider tuition fees, location of academies offering a certain course – there are many things a prospective student of tertiary education needs to ponder about.

Do allocate some time for your investigation. I spent two days wandering about in an education fair. Technically, I had already made up my mind on the first day and the second day was spent doing in-depth research on my chosen career and the course available. It was time well-spent for I may now state my future ambition with unshakeable conviction whereas I never knew what to tell people my ambition was previously due to uncertainty.

Some scholars opt to take Diploma course immediately whereas some would prefer a pre-university course. It is really all up to you and no one can tell you what you should do. Your future is involved, so do open up your eyes and ears, be prepared to embark upon lengthy debates with anyone who is able to provide advice. Make your choice wisely. It will definitely be worth studying your options carefully before making a hasty decision you may regret.

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Ben Stiller mocks Joaquin Phoenix at Oscars!!!

yeah its damn funny!!!!! BEN STILLER RULEZ!!!!!!!



Joaquin Phoenix made a bizarre appearance on Wednesday night's Letterman to promote his film "Two Lovers," during what may be his last visit as an actor. Phoenix has insisted he is retiring from film to focus on his hip-hop career.weird!!!!!






Ben stiller's mockery!!!!!!!

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1 dAy IN mUMbAi 4 sLUmDoG mILLiOnArE!!!

Danny boyle's "Slumdog Millionaire" hits the ground running. This is a breathless, exciting story, heartbreaking and exhilarating at the same time, about a Mumbai orphan who rises from rags to riches on the strength of his lively intelligence. The film's universal appeal will present the real India to millions of moviegoers for the first time.

The story of Jamal Malik, an 18 year-old orphan from the slums of Mumbai, who is about to experience the biggest day of his life. With the whole nation watching, he is just one question away from winning a staggering 20 million rupees on India's "Who Wants To Be A Millionaire?" But when the show breaks for the night, police arrest him on suspicion of cheating; how could a street kid know so much? Desperate to prove his innocence, Jamal tells the story of his life in the slum where he and his brother grew up, of their adventures together on the road, of vicious encounters with local gangs, and of Latika, the girl he loved and lost. Each chapter of his story reveals the key to the answer to one of the game show's questions. Intrigued by Jamal's story, the jaded Police Inspector begins to wonder what a young man with no apparent desire for riches is really doing on this game show? When the new day dawns and Jamal returns to answer the final question..then i won't tell...but you can guess the ending perfectly.

A.R Rahman's music is awesome as usual. .Slum Dog Millionaire is one of the most powerful, entertaining and soul searching movies I've ever seen. I can't say enough good things about it... The cast, the director, the cinematographers, the editors, the wardrobe and makeup people, you name it, it was all spectacular. The children actors stole my heart, and the scene with the young boy singing at the train station -and I won't give anything way.. but this child tugged at my heart strings like never before. Man!! Please go see this movie, I plan on seeing it again in mumbai. I have to make my piece with it, and I hope these young actors will get the recognition they deserve, as well as the director and others involved with this project. This movie ROCKS!....

Thrilling Trailer



The Fabulous song: JAI HO

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U Can LiVe 5 YeArS lOngEr !!!..trUst Me In Diz..

U'll live 5 years longer if u...

*Eat CHOCOLATE: people who eat chocolate 3 times a week live 5 years longer than those who say no to sweets-or eat them more often. The reason is probably chocolate's high antioxidant count- it contains even more of these vital nutrients than FRUIT! Jean Calment, who at 122 was the world's oldest living woman, attributed her lomgevity to eating chocolate everyday...



Kisses Graphic Comments
*Get a MORNING KISS: studies by insurance companies have found that if a husband gets a goodbye kiss from his wife he's less likely to crash his car and likely to live 5 years lomger than men without the SUNRISE SMOOCH..this sounds funny but its true.

*Practise HARA HACHI BU : No. not a martial art, but a tip from japanese island Okinawa. It means STOP EATING WHEN u're 80% FULL.not only does this cut calories, it also reduces stress on the liver and kidneys.

*Become VEGETARIAN: vegetarians live 7 years longer than meat eaters.it could be less fat or more fruit, vegetables and wholegrains in the diet or just karma for being nice to animals..lolx..

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